Lesson 04 — A Day in Someone Else's Shoes

Learners imagine and describe what it is like to be someone else in a familiar place — a new student, a wheelchair user, a grandparent, a child new to the language — and notice how the same place feels different to different people.

D02 P1: Emotional & Social Awareness D02.S2 45 minutes Draft

What is it like to be someone else in a familiar place?

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One classroom shown twice. The left view is from a standing child's height — a shelf with a ball on top, a door, and a window. The right view is the same room from a child in a wheelchair at a lower height — the ball on the shelf now out of reach, the door handle high, and a step in the way. Beneath reads "the same place feels different to different people." The words and shapes carry the meaning, not color, so it prints clearly in grayscale.
One classroom shown twice. The left view is from a standing child's height — a shelf with a ball on top, a door, and a window. The right view is the same room from a child in a wheelchair at a lower height — the ball on the shelf now out of reach, the door handle high, and a step in the way. Beneath reads "the same place feels different to different people." The words and shapes carry the meaning, not color, so it prints clearly in grayscale.

Lesson 4 — A Day in Someone Else’s Shoes

Summary

Learners step inside another person’s day in a familiar place — the classroom, the market, the playground — and describe what that person sees, hears, feels, and needs. They discover that the same place feels very different depending on who you are in it.

Objectives

  • Imagine and describe what it is like to be someone else in a familiar place. (D02.S2.03.02)

Connection

Walk into your classroom. To you, the ball on the shelf is right there. To a child who uses a wheelchair, it may be too high to reach. To a new student who does not yet speak the language, the teacher’s words are a blur. To a grandparent, the floor may feel far down and the noise very loud. It is the same room, but it is a different room to each person in it. Imagining another person’s day in a place you know well is how you learn to make that place kinder for everyone.

Materials

  • A “familiar place” poster (classroom, market, or playground)
  • “Someone else” cards
  • Paper and crayons

Preparation

  • Hang or draw the familiar-place poster.
  • Prepare the “someone else” cards with a mix of people of different ages, abilities, and situations.

Facilitator note

This lesson carries CASEL’s social-awareness competency — perspective-taking — into a place the learner knows, which is the deepest and most honest test of it. Keep every “someone else” respected and specific, never pitied: a wheelchair user is not “sad,” a new student is not “behind” — each has a real, full experience worth understanding. Name barriers as things the place could change (a step, an unexplained routine), not shortcomings of the person — that is the egalitarian heart of the lesson, and it turns empathy into the power to make a place fairer. Invite many kinds of people across the cards, including older people, people who are Deaf or hard of hearing, people who use mobility aids, and people new to a language — and welcome learners to add their own. Read the procedure aloud; model one full “day” first, then let learners try (Kirschner, Sweller & Clark, 2006).

Procedure

  1. Gather (5 min). Look around a familiar place in your mind — your classroom, the market, the playground. It feels one way to you. Does it feel the same to everyone?
  2. Meet the place (10 min). Look at the poster. Walk through it together: what do you see, hear, touch? Now pick a “someone else” card. Does the ball on the high shelf look the same to them? Does the noisy corner sound the same?
  3. Watch a worked example (10 min). The facilitator imagines one full day as one “someone else”: “I am new here, and I do not know the words yet. When the teacher speaks, I watch faces and hands to understand…” Notice: the place stays the same; the experience changes.
  4. Describe a day (15 min). Choose your own “someone else.” Walk them through the place in your mind and describe their day: what do they see, hear, feel, and need? Draw one moment of their day as they see it.
  5. Close (5 min). The same place is a different place to each person in it. Seeing that is how you make it kinder — and fairer — for everyone.

Differentiation

  • Support: Offer one person to imagine and a sentence starter (“As a ___, I see…”). A non-speaking learner draws the place from that person’s view.
  • Extension: Invite learners to name one small change to the place that would make it easier for their “someone else,” and explain why.

Assessment

  • Formative (observation): Does the learner describe the familiar place from the chosen person’s point of view — naming what they see, hear, feel, or need?
  • Artifact (portfolio): The “a day in someone else’s shoes” drawing, kept in the learner’s portfolio.

Home connection

At home, imagine one familiar room through someone else’s eyes — a younger sibling, a grandparent, a visitor — and tell someone what you think that person sees and needs there.

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