Lesson 09 — My Family Community
Learners name their family as a community they belong to and share one thing their family does together, honoring that families come in many shapes.
Objectives
- D02.S3.K.01 Name a community they belong to and one thing people do together in it.
Essential question
What do the people in my family do together?
Materials
Standard materials
- Paper and crayons · per learner
- A large shared paper · 1 For a group "families" picture
Low-tech / no-cost
- Voice and body Act out one thing your family does together; others guess what it is
- A shared ground drawing Draw your family doing something together in the soil or sand
Enriched / lab & device
- Family photos (if families share them) · optional Learners may bring or share a family photo with permission
- A tablet with a drawing app · 1 per group Draw your family together and record one thing you do as a family
Works in different contexts
- large-group Build a group list of "things families do together" and let each learner add one
- self-directed A learner draws their family and tells (or writes) one thing they do together
- outdoor-only Act out a family task done outdoors — carrying water, tending plants, gathering food — and share it
- multi-age Older learners write a word or sentence about their family; younger ones draw and tell
- level-grouped Learners who are ready describe two things their family does together; others name one
Lesson 9 — My Family Community
Summary
Learners name their family as their first community and share one thing their family does together. They see that families come in many shapes — and that what makes a family is caring and being together, not any single shape.
Objectives
- Name their family as a community they belong to and one thing people do together in it. (D02.S3.K.01)
Connection
A family is the first community most of us ever belong to. Families look different everywhere — some are big, some are small, some have grandparents or aunts or chosen people, and no shape is better than another. What families share is this: people who care for each other and do things together.
Materials
- Paper and crayons
- One large shared paper for a group “families” picture
Preparation
- Arrange a circle for sharing.
- Prepare the shared paper for a group drawing.
- Have a gentle, open way to talk about family shapes — some learners live with grandparents, aunts, one parent, or caregivers.
Facilitator note
This lesson is written to the learner (“you”) so it works in a classroom and for a self-directed learner. As facilitator, honor every family shape equally — never ask “where is your mother/father.” Use open words: “the people who care for you at home.” Some children may carry hard family stories; let any learner pass, and never rank one family as more real or complete than another.
Procedure
- Gather (5 min). Think: who are the people who care for you at home? That is your family.
- Many shapes of family (10 min). Families are all different. Some are big, some small; some have grandparents, aunts, one parent, two, or chosen people. All of them care. There is no one right shape.
- What we do together (15 min). What is one thing your family does together? (Cooking, telling stories, walking, eating, playing, working side by side.) Tell a partner, then share with the group.
- Draw it (10 min). Draw your family doing that thing. Add your picture to the big shared paper so all our families are together.
- Close (5 min). Remember: your family is your first community. You belong there.
Differentiation
- Support: Offer a sentence starter: “My family likes to ___ together.”
- Extension: Invite learners to name two things their family does together and how each one shows caring.
Assessment
- Formative (observation): Can the learner name their family and one thing the family does together?
- Artifact (portfolio): The family drawing.
Resources
- CASEL SEL Framework (foundational competencies): https://casel.org/fundamentals-of-sel/
Home connection
With your family, make a list or drawing of three things you like to do together. Talk about which one you want to do this week.