Lesson 04 — Listening to a Speaker

Learners practice listening to a real person, not just a story — holding their attention, remembering one important thing, and asking a wondering question.

D04 P3: Intellectual & Cognitive Awareness D04.S1 45 minutes Draft

How do I listen to a person and remember what matters?

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A speaker holding a talking stick talks to a listening child, with insets showing two respectful ways to listen - eyes down, or watching the speaker's hands.
A speaker holding a talking stick talks to a listening child, with insets showing two respectful ways to listen - eyes down, or watching the speaker's hands.

Lesson 4 — Listening to a Speaker

Summary

Learners practice listening to a live speaker — a person sharing one short thing — and retell one important part they heard, then ask a wondering question. Listening to a person is treated as a way of caring.

Objectives

  • Listen to a story or speaker and retell one important part in their own words. (D04.S1.K.01)

Connection

Every day people talk to you — a grown-up giving directions, a friend telling a joke, a neighbor describing how to fix something. Listening to a person is how you understand what they know, what they need, and how they feel. Listening well is a way of showing someone that they matter.

Materials

  • A guest speaker or a short spoken message
  • A “talking stick” or passing object (optional)

Preparation

  • Invite a speaker (a family member, a community worker, an older learner) to share one short, simple thing.
  • Prepare the talking stick or a substitute.

Facilitator note

This lesson is written to the learner (“you”) so it works in a classroom and for a self-directed learner. If no visitor is available, you are the speaker, or use a recording. Keep the talk short — under three minutes — and about one concrete thing. Frame asking questions as “wondering together,” never as challenging the speaker. Honor the speaker’s language; if they speak a language some learners don’t know, invite translation with patience and curiosity. For a learner who is deaf or hard of hearing, arrange what they need to receive the message — a sign-language interpretation, lip-reading with the speaker facing them, a written or pictured key point, or captions on a recording — so “listening to a person” is open to every learner. Learners may tell back what they heard by speaking, signing, pointing, drawing, or acting; all are valid.

Procedure

  1. Gather (5 min). Think of a time someone really listened to you. How did it feel? How did you know they were listening?
  2. Meet the speaker (5 min). Learn who is speaking and what they will share. Get your ears, eyes, and body ready — the three listening jobs from Lesson 1.
  3. Listen (10 min). Listen to the whole message without interrupting. If a question pops into your head, hold it like a ball in your lap until the speaker is done.
  4. Tell back one thing (15 min). With a partner, say one important thing you heard, in your own words. Then, if you have one, ask a “wondering question” — something you are curious about.
  5. Close and thank (10 min). Thank the speaker. Say one thing you learned. Remember: when you listen to a person, you are giving them your full attention, and that is a gift.

Differentiation

  • Support: Let a learner retell by pointing to a picture the speaker brought, or by echoing one phrase they remember.
  • Extension: Invite learners to ask a follow-up question and connect the speaker’s idea to their own life.

Assessment

  • Formative (observation): Does the learner hold attention during the speaker’s talk without interrupting?
  • Formative (oral): Can the learner name one important thing the speaker said in their own words — spoken, signed, pointed, drawn, or acted out?

Resources

Home connection

At home, practice listening to a grown-up’s short story without interrupting. Tell back one thing and ask one wondering question.