Lesson 05 — What Might They Need?

Learners connect a feeling or clue to what a person might want or need in a familiar situation, and practice saying their guess kindly.

D02 P1: Emotional & Social Awareness D02.S2 45 minutes Draft

How can I guess what someone needs?

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A scene card shows a child with a tipped cup and a spill. Beside it, three arrow-linked steps — "I see… a spill," "so they might need… a cloth," and "ask kindly" with the question "Can I help you?" — teach the chain from noticing a clue to guessing a need and checking the guess with a kind question.
A scene card shows a child with a tipped cup and a spill. Beside it, three arrow-linked steps — "I see… a spill," "so they might need… a cloth," and "ask kindly" with the question "Can I help you?" — teach the chain from noticing a clue to guessing a need and checking the guess with a kind question.

Lesson 5 — What Might They Need?

Summary

Learners look at familiar situations, read the clues, and guess what the person might want or need. They practice turning a guess into a kind offer and learn that needs are not always the same as wants.

Objectives

  • Tell what another person might want or need in a familiar situation. (D02.S2.01.02)

Connection

When you notice someone’s clues, you can guess what might help them: a friend who spilled their water might need a cloth; a friend sitting alone at play might want company. Guessing what another person needs is how caring moves from noticing to doing.

Materials

  • Scene picture cards (spilled drink, dropped pencil, a friend alone, a heavy bag)
  • Paper and crayons

Preparation

  • Arrange a circle for gathering.
  • Set out the scene picture cards where all can see them.

Facilitator note

Guide learners from clue to need with a simple chain: “I see… so they might need…” Keep guesses open — there is no single right answer, and that is the point. Name gently that a need (water, rest, a hand) is not the same as a want (a toy, first turn). Read the procedure aloud and model the chain sentence.

Procedure

  1. Gather (5 min). Sit in a circle. Think of a time you needed something. How did you feel before someone helped you?
  2. Clue to need (10 min). Look at the scene cards. For each one, say the chain: “I see ___ (the clue), so they might need ___ (the need).” Say your guess out loud — or point to the clue and the need on the cards, or act it out.
  3. Guess kindly (15 min). Practice saying your guess as a kind offer: “You look like you might need help. Can I help you?” — or offer it with a gesture, a sign, or a picture card. Remember a guess can be wrong — ask, don’t assume.
  4. Draw a need (10 min). Draw one scene and the need you guessed. Show what the person might need and how you could help.
  5. Close (5 min). Remember: needs and wants are different. When you guess what someone needs and ask kindly, you turn caring into help.

Differentiation

  • Support: Offer a two-choice guess (“might they need a cloth or a toy?”) to make the chain easier.
  • Extension: Ask learners to name two different guesses for the same scene and explain why both could be right.

Assessment

  • Formative (observation): Can the learner state a want or need that fits the scene’s clues?
  • Artifact (portfolio): The “need and help” drawing, kept in the learner’s portfolio.