Lesson 05 — My Body Gives Me Clues

Learners reverse the body map: instead of naming a feeling and finding its spot, they start from a body signal — tight shoulders, a fast heart, a heavy chest — and guess and check the feeling, using a simple Notice, Name, Check routine.

D01 P1: Emotional & Social Awareness D01.S1 50 minutes Draft

When my body sends a signal, how do I use it to name my feeling?

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A matching chart titled "My body gives me clues" with three rows. Each row shows a body signal on the left — a figure with tense shoulders, a figure with a hand on a fast-beating heart, and a figure with a heavy, drooping chest — and a dashed arrow pointing to a blank box on the right where the learner writes or says the feeling name. The bottom shows the three-step check: Notice, Name, Check. The signal drawings, not color, carry the meaning.
A matching chart titled "My body gives me clues" with three rows. Each row shows a body signal on the left — a figure with tense shoulders, a figure with a hand on a fast-beating heart, and a figure with a heavy, drooping chest — and a dashed arrow pointing to a blank box on the right where the learner writes or says the feeling name. The bottom shows the three-step check: Notice, Name, Check. The signal drawings, not color, carry the meaning.

Lesson 5 — My Body Gives Me Clues

Summary

Learners reverse yesterday’s body map. Now they start from a body signal — tight shoulders, a fast heart, a heavy chest, a hot face — and use it to guess the feeling, then check the guess. They learn a three-step routine, Notice, Name, Check, and practice it on their own bodies.

Objectives

  • Notice where a feeling shows up in the body, such as tense shoulders or a fast heartbeat, and name the feeling. (D01.S1.02.02)

Connection

You are standing in line for the swing and your shoulders are up near your ears and your jaw is tight. You did not decide to feel this way — your body already told you. Now you can read the clue: tight shoulders and a tight jaw often mean mad or frustrated. Your body sends clues first; the words come second. Learning to read the clue lets you catch a feeling early, before it gets very big.

Materials

  • Body clue cards
  • Feeling name cards
  • Chart paper and markers

Preparation

  • Prepare the body clue cards and the feeling name cards.
  • Write the three steps large: Notice, Name, Check.
  • Set out a small space where learners can jump and rest to feel a real heartbeat.

Facilitator note

This lesson is written to the learner (“you”). The “check” step matters: a body signal can mean more than one feeling (a fast heart can be scared or excited), so the guess is checked with the situation. Honor that a guess is a guess — the learner is the expert on their own body. Never insist a learner’s signal means a particular feeling. Keep the heartbeat activity short and inclusive; any learner can feel their heart by resting a hand on their chest, seated or standing.

Procedure

  1. Gather (5 min). Yesterday you found where feelings live in your body. Quick check: where does mad often live? (Tense shoulders, hot face.) Where does sad often live? (Heavy chest.) Today you read your body’s clues backward — signal first, feeling second.
  2. Meet the three steps (10 min). Learn Notice, Name, Check. Notice the body signal. Name your best guess of the feeling. Check it against what is happening. Example: you notice your heart is beating fast — you guess scared — you check: is something scary happening, or is it your birthday tomorrow? Fast heart can mean scared or excited. The situation is the check.
  3. Match signals to feelings (15 min). Look at each body clue card. Point to the feeling name you guess: tight shoulders and a tight jaw (mad or frustrated); a fast heart and quick breath (scared or excited); a heavy, slow chest (sad or disappointed); hot cheeks (mad); a fluttery tummy (nervous). Remember: some clues point to more than one feeling — that is why we check.
  4. Feel it for real (10 min). Jump or march in place for a moment, then stop and rest your hand on your chest. Notice: your heart is fast. Now sit still and breathe slowly. Notice: your heart slows. Say the three steps out loud for what you noticed: Notice (fast heart), Name (excited, maybe), Check (I was just moving!).
  5. Close (5 min). Your body talks first, your words come second. When you Notice, Name, and Check, you can catch a feeling early — while it is still small enough to hold.

Differentiation

  • Support: Work with two body signals at a time; act out each one and offer two feeling choices.
  • Extension: Keep a one-day “clue log” — record one body signal you noticed, your guess, and the check, in words or drawings.

Assessment

  • Formative (observation): Can the learner name a plausible feeling from a described body signal and check it against a situation?
  • Self-check: The learner says the three steps — Notice, Name, Check — for one signal they felt today.

Home connection

Tonight, notice one body signal in someone at home (tight shoulders, a fast breath, a big sigh) and ask kindly, “Are you feeling okay?” — then listen.

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