Lesson 06 — Leading and Following a Scene

Learners act out a small scene with a partner, taking turns leading and following. They discover that leading is a gift you share, following is an active skill, and both belong to every good partnership.

D07 P3: Intellectual & Cognitive Awareness D07.S3 45 minutes Draft

How do I act out a scene with a partner, taking turns leading and following?

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Two figures face each other with mirrored arms — one labeled lead and one labeled follow — and a round turn marker between them is labeled whose turn to lead. A curved arrow shows the two swapping, so lead becomes follow and follow becomes lead. Prints clearly in grayscale.
Two figures face each other with mirrored arms — one labeled lead and one labeled follow — and a round turn marker between them is labeled whose turn to lead. A curved arrow shows the two swapping, so lead becomes follow and follow becomes lead. Prints clearly in grayscale.

Lesson 6 — Leading and Following a Scene

Summary

Learners act out a small scene with a partner, taking turns leading and following. They discover that leading is a gift you pass along, following is an active skill that takes attention and care, and both belong to every good partnership.

Objectives

  • Act out a scene with a partner, taking turns leading and following. (D07.S3.02.02)

Connection

Think of the times you move with someone else — dancing with a partner, carrying a heavy thing together, playing a mirror game. One person leads for a while, and the other follows — then they trade. Everywhere, people work and play this way: taking turns so both get to lead and both get to follow. Today you will act a small scene with a partner, leading and following in turn.

Materials

  • A simple scene idea (a market visit, carrying water, a greeting)
  • A turn marker (a stone or cloth knot)
  • Open floor space

Preparation

  • Choose a small, everyday scene with two clear roles, told as a scene to play.
  • Clear a space for pairs, and set out the turn marker.

Facilitator note

This lesson is written to the learner (“you”) so it works in a classroom and for a self-directed learner. Keep the scene simple and everyday, and never co-opt sacred or ceremonial roles from any culture. Use a neutral turn marker (a stone or cloth knot) so no single culture’s object carries the turn. Model leading and following once — you move, a learner mirrors — before pairs try (Kirschner, Sweller & Clark, 2006). Emphasize that following is active, not passive: a good follower watches, listens, and matches. Never push a shy learner to perform; watching and mirroring is full participation. A learner who uses a wheelchair or moves with support leads and follows from where they are — a raised hand, a nod, a lean, and their partner mirrors it. A learner who does not speak leads with movement and face, and follows the same way. A learner who is blind or has low vision leads with voice and touch (a partner mirrors the sound or holds a hand to feel the move). A learner who is Deaf or hard of hearing leads and follows through visible movement and gesture. Celebrate both roles equally — there is no “better” part.

Procedure

  1. Gather (5 min). Find a partner. Today you will act a small scene together. One of you will lead, and the other will follow — then you will trade.
  2. Practice mirroring (10 min). Face your partner. One of you leads a slow move — raise a hand, tilt your head, reach out. The other follows by copying it at the same time, like a mirror. Go slowly so your partner can stay with you. Then trade: the follower becomes the leader.
  3. Act the scene (15 min). Act a small everyday scene together — visiting a market, carrying water, greeting a friend. The leader begins and sets the moves; the follower stays with them. Hold the turn marker to show it is your turn to lead, and pass it when you trade. Both of you get a turn to lead and a turn to follow.
  4. Share (10 min). Show a little of your scene to another pair if you wish. Tell (or point to) who led first and who followed, and how it felt to trade.
  5. Close (5 min). Remember: leading is a gift you pass along, and following takes care and attention. Every good partnership needs both — and now you have done both.

Differentiation

  • Support: Offer one clear action to lead (“raise one hand, and your partner mirrors it”) and trade right away so both feel each role.
  • Support (seated/adapted): Lead and follow from a chair — a raised hand, a nod, a lean; the partner mirrors it, and that is full participation.
  • Support (non-speaking): Lead and follow with movement and face.
  • Support (blind/low-vision): Lead with voice and touch; follow by holding a hand to feel the move.
  • Support (Deaf/HH): Lead and follow through visible movement and gesture.
  • Extension: Invite pairs to act a scene where the lead changes in the middle — the follower feels the moment and becomes the leader — then tell how they knew.

Assessment

  • Formative (observation): Does the learner act out a scene with a partner, taking turns leading and following?
  • Performance: The learner’s scene with a partner, observed live (in any adapted form).

Home connection

With someone at home, play a mirror game — one of you leads a slow move and the other follows, then trade. Tell each other which role you liked and why.